Favorites for Cold Days

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The New Year is upon us and cold winter days harkens some of my favorite foods. As much as I enjoy my frou-frou gourmet food, settling down to a plate of stick-to-your-ribs, grandma-type food is even better. America has a plethora of regional comfort foods. I have often carried on in this space about my love of all foods from N’awlins (New Orleans in Yankee speak) and with the New Year comes the Mardi-Gras season. Leave it to the Cajuns to prepare for the solemnest day of the Lenten season with the debauchery and excess of Mardi Gras.

A cold day in Cape May is perfect for enjoying a steaming, thick bowl of gumbo or Shrimp Ettoufée. But there is no need to make a culinary journey down south for stick-to-your-ribs comfort food. Chicken and dumplings is probably my all-time, favorite winter comfort food. But as I learned the hard way, the use of the term “dumpling” has different meanings in different regions of the country. My grandmother always made chicken and dumplings with the softball-size, light, fluffy variety. In parts of the south, the “dumpling” is more akin to thick doughy noodles. Both varieties can be tasty, but when you are expecting one, and get served the other, it can be a little unsettling. That is the conundrum of comfort food – everyone has their own food memory of what makes the perfect chicken and dumpling, meatloaf or “mac and cheese.” Serving comfort food in a restaurant is a dicey proposition since every person is convinced that his or her mom or grandmother made the definitive version.

 Comfort food is as much about rekindling childhood memories, as it is culinary excellence. How else can you explain a trained chef getting cravings on a cold winter’s day for grilled cheese on white bread made with Velveeta and served with Campbell’s cream of tomato soup? I have created many “gourmet” versions of grilled cheese over the years, but when it’s cold outside and the gray, January sky is putting me in those winter doldrums only the slick, oozy Velveeta sandwich and thin, tomato soup can snap me back to reality. It is not just a meal, but also a hug from my grandma.

 Rice pudding was another Grandma special, but I could never eat it cold. I enjoy it warm, straight out of the beat-up double boiler that she always made it in. Rice never tasted so good as it did bathed in a rich, creamy sauce with just a hint of cinnamon and nutmeg, but enough sugar to keep me and my siblings running around the house for hours.

Rich and creamy – that was the comfort food I grew up on. But there was one dish that she made for my grandfather alone (until I got old enough to appreciate it.) Oyster Stew. I have since found out that this is a simple dish to make, but hard to perfect. Made with the simplest and humblest of ingredients – oysters were once considered poor peoples’ food along the Jersey Shore. A little onion sautéed with some bacon and fresh milk, from the bottle with the cream off the top scraped into it, and pats of real butter melted in, and then the crowning jewel –  fresh oysters cooked in this succulent broth until they curl slightly and are barely cooked in a pinch of salt and a little black pepper. This stew served to my grandfather and I on a cold winter’s day made us feel like kings.

 So when the January doldrums set in – curl up with these recipes and float back to simpler, happier times of childhood when Grandma’s cooking always made the day better. Until next month, Bon Appétit.

*This recipe appeared in the August 2007 issue of but just in case you missed it, here it is again.

Shrimp and Oyster Gumbo

Jon Davies
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Course Soup
Servings 12 servings


  • ½ Cup peanut oil
  • ½ Cup flour
  • 2 Cups chopped onion
  • 2 Cups green pepper
  • 2 Cups celery chopped
  • 1 Gallon shrimp stock
  • 1 Teaspoon thyme
  • 1 Teaspoon basil
  • 1 Teaspoon oregano
  • Kosher salt black pepper, cayenne – all peppers to taste
  • Crystal hot sauce to taste
  • 2 Bay leaves
  • ½ Cup chopped fresh parsley
  • 1 Pound medium shrimp peeled and deveined
  • 3 Pints oysters with their liquor
  • Filé powder to taste
  • 5 Cups cooked rice garnish
  • 1 Cup green onions garnish


  • In large pot, heat oil. Add flour to form roux. Cook over medium high heat stirring obsessively until reddish brown.
  • Add vegetables. Cook until vegetables are soft.
  • Add stock seasonings and parsley. Simmer 30 minutes.
  • Add shellfish. When shrimp is pink, gumbo is done.
  • Serve in bowls topped with rice, green onions, and sprinkle with filé powder. Enjoy

Oyster Stew

Jon Davies
Course Soup
Cuisine Seafood


  • 1 Dozen select oysters in liquor
  • 1 Small yellow onion finely diced
  • 4 Strips bacon diced
  • Cups milk
  • ¼ Cup cream
  • 2 Ounces unsalted butter sliced into bits
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • 2-3 Drops Tabasco Sauce
  • 1 Lemon wedge


  • In thick-bottomed sauce pan, render bacon over medium heat until crispy.
  • Add in onions. Sauté 2-3 minutes until softened.
  • Add milk and cream. Bring to boil. Simmer 3 minutes.
  • Add oysters and liquor. Reduce to simmer. Cook 3 minutes until oysters are slightly poached.
  • Gently stir in pats of butter until just melted.
  • Lightly season with salt and pepper and splash of Tabasco Sauce.
  • Serve and squeeze lemon wedge into stew before indulging.

Rice Pudding

Jon Davies
Serves 4. This recipe can easily be doubled.
Course Dessert
Servings 4


  • 2 Cups cooked rice
  • Cups milk
  • 3 Egg yolks plus 1 egg
  • ¾ Cup sugar
  • ½ Cup cream
  • Pinch nutmeg
  • Pinch cinnamon
  • Splash vanilla extract.


  • In double boiler, heat rice and half of milk until warm.
  • In stainless steel bowl, whisk egg yolks, egg, sugar, cream and vanilla.
  • When rice mix is warm and simmering, whisk in egg mix.
  • Reduce heat. Simmer until thickened, 8-10 minutes.
  • Add nutmeg and cinnamon.


You can put raisins in if you so desire.